Friday, September 29, 2023

Elephant or Dodo Bird?


As I reached the exit door of the Marquis fitness room, the person on the treadmill next to me and with whom I’d been chatting said, “I’m eighty-four years old, but when I exercise, I feel 70.”



During my neighborhood walk, this comment kept rattling around in my head. It resonated with my own sense of who I am. Whatever earlier generations have thought about people who crossed the 80-year mark, it is clear to me and others in the contemporary octogenarian class that we have energy, commitment, purpose, and staying power. In fact, we are an aspect of humanity’s evolution on planet earth. What do I mean? 



A recent TED hour on NPR radio set my mind swirling. For each TED Hour an NPR host collates three-to-four TED Talks that address a common theme and interviews the presenters. This one was on ‘Vacancies: What happens in spaces (or species) that have been diminished?’

 


One example was of elephants in a remote nature preserve in Africa. For decades poachers have been decimating their population for the purpose of selling their tusks on the black-market. Recently, however, these elephants have been making a comeback. How? The mama elephants have been birthing babies that do not grow tusks.

Elephants are extraordinarily empathetic, family oriented, and highly protective of their offspring. It seems that after years of watching humans 

kill their kin, brutally remove the tusks, leave dead carcasses bleeding on the ground, and drive off in a cloud of dust and raucous laughter, 

MAMA ELEPHANTS had had enough. 

Using their brain-body wisdom, 

they told their bodies to produce elephants without tusks.


Reflecting on this recent research of elephants adapting to a devastating change in their situation, put the contemporary turmoil around sexuality and human propagation in a bigger framework. Younger generations have made it clear that they are fed up with school shooter drills, static gender roles, and desecration of the environment. 


Likewise, older people are rebelling against being relegated to ‘retirement camps for the elderly.’ At either end of the age spectrum, humans are taking actions to assure the future existence of humanity and a healthy environment to sustain it.


If you or someone you know has or soon will reach eighty, know that you and they have a choice about whether to take the route of the Dodo bird or that of the innovative elephant. Be an elephant. Reimagine humanity, a healthy society, and our shared home. 




 

8 comments:

Melody Carr said...

Oh, excellent--there's more to life than we think! :-)

I hope you are doing very well, and belated Happy Birthday, LiDona!

Melody

Terry Bergdall said...

Reading your current blog, I was caught-up in doing the math. As you celebrate your 84th birthday, I realized you would have been closer to 28 than 29 when I first met you in January 1968 just I was approaching my 18th. Both of us, it's fair to say, were making a remarkable effort to embrace our chronological age and respond undeterred to the urgency of the times. Circumstances have certainly changed in 55 years but reading your reflection calls me to consider my current life phase and the challenges of today. The contradictions seem almost overwhelming now ... but they did as well in 1968. I'm not sure how to "will" something different like the elephants but the key is to remain wide awake, wrestle with the question, and shape a wholehearted response.

Anonymous said...

For many years I have ben intent on changing everything but vocation. Now, stepping through an 80th year, I am finally beginning to manifest this life-long path of the great spirit movement in my heart in a whole new evolutionary way. No tusks. A recreated empathic connection to our common earth. Love this elephant dharma sharing. Will share in sangha this month. Walk in peace, Sister. Judi White

Jean said...

Well said LiDona. If I'm still around, I'll look forward to your 90 year-old post. In my experience, a decade does make a difference. Body parts wear out, the grandkids are grand adults who likley don't share your fondness for FaceBook. In fact, my fondness for FaceBook is tanking since it seems to think it knows best as to what I am interested in. Old creative skills expand into new ones: I'm currently learning the latest version of Adobe Illustrtor so I can make graphics for Wild Connections web page (www.wildconnections.org) and social media.

And so...
With appreciation,
Jean

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ruth said...

LIDonna,
I love the art work in this blog - not any particular one, but the lot tother. They just made me feel happy scrolling through them!

Lauren said...

Thanks for this, LiDonna. Ageism is rampant--and one of the few -isms that appears allowable. Older people can FUEL this by buying into the stereotype in a big way and short-circuiting their active (physical, emotional, creative)lives. That's NOT YOU!!!

jpc2025 said...

Thank you, LiDona, for another artful (loved the new doodles) and inspiring posting.
Wonderful story of the elephants. Made me think of fish in dark caves who no longer have seeing eyes. (I can't recall if they do have physical eyes or not.)The elephant story made me wonder what we need to rewire in our thinking for the evolutionary future of humans.


So thankful for Jean's passion and activism in caring for the wild places. In reading her newsletter mentioned, i learned of geographic names being changed to honor and respect the aboriginal heritage of the area vs. honoring persons who had violated the historical communities. Carry on, Jean. You give us courage! Lynda Cock

Kathleen said...

This is excellent! I look forward to aging and what that looks like more and more.